How to Win an Argument Without Anger

In a culture where revenge and retaliation are highly valued (Kill Bill, anyone?), it isn’t popular to promote kindness and patience towards those who are angry with us, especially when we are truly being wronged. But ironically this is exactly what Solomon learned in his wisdom. Why is this so? Because at the core, anger is a very strong emotion that influences our ability to think rationally and lovingly. If uncontrolled, anger causes us to act and speak impulsively, and often we damage ourselves and others in the process. Proverbs 14:29 says, “Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts...

How To Be Content, Part III

A crucial point on the path to contentment is the battle against anxiety, which is defined as incessant concern and fear over life challenges. Anxiety is basically the fear of feeling out of control of difficult circumstances. In Philippians 4:4-7, Paul gives some interesting advice about dealing with anxiety. He says, 4 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. 5 Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; 6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will...

What A Christian Loo...

Are you good at multi-tasking? Many of us can do a number of jobs at the same time. Some of us can even process multiple bits of information in our minds about completely different subjects simultaneously. In fact, God equips each human with the ability to hold a number of positions, and...

What A Christian Loo...

Fewer passages are clearer than John 15:1-17 about the actions of a true follower of Christ. Many folks talk the talk, but this passage outlines the characteristics of those who also walk the walk. God “cuts off every branch [ ] that bears no fruit.” The word “fruit” is the Greek...

How To Be Content, P...

A brief word on the famous verse in Philippians 4:13 which reads, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Sometimes this verse is mistakenly interpreted to mean that one can accomplish anything as long as they have enough faith or belief in God that they can do it. This is...

How To Be Content, P...

In Philippians 4:10-13, Paul explains his current situation in prison. The Philippians had just sent Paul a valuable gift. Exactly what that gift was we cannot know exactly, but it must have been a pretty substantial gift because the Philippians apparently had not, as Paul stated, had an...